The Suspicious Death of Leslie Buck (Connecticut)

From the moment investigators stepped foot into the home of Leslie and Charlie Buck in the spring of 2002 following a 9-1-1 call, there was something off about the circumstances of Leslie’s untimely death. Leslie had just survived a violent kidnapping two days earlier, and autopsy findings left the manner of her death anything but clear cut. 

This episode is a continuation of Leslie’s story. Be sure to listen to The Kidnapping of Leslie Buck (Connecticut) first so you’re caught up on everything that’s happened so far. 

I’m going to take you through the suspicious death case and all of the evidence that amounted to probable cause for an arrest…As well as the bombshell report and supporting expert testimony that attributed Leslie’s death to something that had nothing to do with the prime suspect

Connecticut State Police have announced a $50,000 reward for information leading to an arrest and conviction in the death of Jimmy Stone. Anyone with information is asked to contact state police at david.bennett@ct.gov, or call 860-465-5456.

Leslie’s Story So Far

In the final days of 57-year old Leslie Buck’s life she survived the unimaginable. A man once considered a friend of the Buck family, Russell Kirby, attacked Leslie as she got out of her car on the night of May 2, 2002, incapacitating her with a stun gun and violently assaulting her before he tied her limbs and kidnapped her in her own car. Leslie’s own quick thinking and courage are to thank for her escape that night; when Russell loosened the restraints for a brief moment and stepped out of the car to check on some car trouble, she used a spare key to speed away from her assailant and to what she believed would be the safety of her own home. 

But Leslie’s home was not the sanctuary it should have been. Whether by accident or by someone else’s hand or some other unexplained cause, Leslie died less than 48 hours after her kidnapping. The wounds on her head were indicative of some kind of blunt trauma…But lacking evidence on the stairwell where she was found, Dr. Malka Shah could not conclusively determine a manner of death. 

As the investigation into Leslie’s death got underway, a jury found Russell Kirby guilty of kidnapping and assault. But the verdict did not clear up why he attacked Leslie Buck. The motivation behind Russell’s attack on Leslie remained a major question mark, and answering that question might shed light on the true nature of Leslie’s subsequent death: Was Russell’s attack on Leslie the misunderstanding Russell claimed it to be? Did he truly act in self-defense? Or did he do it for money? Did he plan to hold her for ransom or did someone offer him money to frighten Leslie, or worse?

As of Russell’s conviction and sentencing, Leslie’s manner of death was still undetermined and it remained under investigation for years and her husband, Charlie Buck, remained under tremendous suspicion for Leslie’s death. 

The Investigation Continues

The “undetermined” ruling of Leslie’s manner of death presented the biggest hurdles for investigators. Without a determination – whether it was an accident or homicide – they really couldn’t progress the case to the point of an arrest or closure. So, investigators sought new opinions from experts out of state to see what they thought about the autopsy and evidence at the scene of Leslie’s death. 

On July 15, 2004, Dr. Michael Baden reviewed Leslie’s autopsy report and photos of Leslie’s body, the crime scene, and videos from inside the Buck home. Dr. Baden was the director of the Medicolegal Investigations Unit for the New York State Police. In his professional opinion, Leslie’s manner of death was homicide…But not blunt force trauma. Dr. Baden was quote-unquote “concerned” about the minimal brain injuries despite Leslie’s skull fracture, and he believed that the injuries to Leslie’s neck were due to asphyxiation. In his view, that’s what ultimately caused her death.

This new opinion from an outside expert didn’t push the case in one direction or another. So by May of 2006, four years after Leslie’s death, her family decided to take the only action afforded to them in this situation. They filed a wrongful death lawsuit against Charlie.

According to reporting by Alaine Griffin for The Hartford Courant and Ethan Rouen for The Day, Leslie’s estate argued that Charlie was having an extramarital affair at the time of Leslie’s death and that he solicited someone (that someone being Russell Kirby) to take Leslie’s life.

A forensic pathologist named Dr. Barbara C. Wolf, who was employed as a medical examiner in the state of Florida, provided another opinion of Leslie’s death as part of the civil wrongful death suit. Fun fact, Dr. Wolf was part of the defense team that helped secure an acquittal for O.J. Simpson.

Dr. Wolf stated in an affidavit that in her professional opinion, and in terms of a reasonable degree of medical certainty, Leslie’s injuries were not consistent with an accidental fall in the staircase where she was found. Dr. Wolf found that there was no existing condition or prior injury that contributed to Leslie’s death and her death was in fact caused by blunt head trauma and asphyxia due to neck compression. The manner of death, in Dr. Wolf’s opinion, was homicide.

The civil wrongful death suit wasn’t the only case making its way through the court system in 2006. While the investigation into Leslie’s suspicious death continued, Russell Kirby managed to successfully get his conviction thrown out.

The Connecticut Supreme Court overturned Russell Kirby’s conviction in October of 2006, finding that Leslie’s statements identifying Russell as her attacker that she made to a dispatcher and an officer should not have been admitted into evidence because it violated his constitutional right to confront the witness against him. These were some of the precise statements Russell tried to have thrown out pre-trial, but they were eventually allowed by the trial judge.

The other statements that Leslie made to medical personnel would remain as evidence, as would Russell’s own statements to police about kidnapping Leslie for money.

In January of 2007, the state announced their intention to seek a new trial for Russell Kirby but later that year, they also offered a plea deal: 12 years in prison if he entered a guilty plea. He’d already served 5 years of his previous sentence before the conviction was overturned. Russell rejected the plea deal and opted to go to trial. 

By this time, Leslie’s case had changed hands and now had the eyes of the Chief State’s Attorney’s Office Cold Case Unit, though her case was not technically considered cold. The unit simply had more resources and would bring a fresh perspective to the evidence. Maybe that team of detectives and prosecutors could make sense of the conflicting opinions and inconclusive evidence. 

It didn’t happen overnight, but it seems that the fresh perspective was exactly what the case needed after all, because on January 22nd, 2009, Charlie Buck was pulling up to the Tim Horton’s in downtown Mystic, as he did every day, when police intercepted his morning coffee run and put him in handcuffs. He was arrested and charged with the murder of his wife.

The Office of the Chief Medical Examiner still had not changed the ruling about how Leslie sustained the head injuries that caused her death. Her death was not and had never been ruled a homicide at that point, yet the investigation had uncovered enough probable cause to secure his arrest.

The evidence against Charlie was largely circumstantial: He made several inconsistent statements regarding his whereabouts on the day of her death, May 4, 2002. You’ll remember there was that piece of wire that could have been similar to a possible murder weapon, and Charlie’s comments to witnesses about using such a wire to hit someone in the head. Not least of all was Charlie’s relationship with Carol Perez and denial of such a relationship that looked a lot like motive to want his wife gone.

Leslie Buck’s story continues on Dark Downeast. Press play to hear the full episode wherever you get your podcasts.

Episode Source Material

  • Kidnap, escape and death by Penelope Overton and Shana Sureck, Hartford Courant, 7 May 2002
  • Teacher found dead after surviving attack, AP via New Haven Register, 7 May 2002
  • Probe continues in teacher’s death by Penelope Overton and Sudhin Thanawala, Hartford Courant, 8 May 
  • Police await autopsy in death of teacher who was abducted, AP via New Haven Register, 8 May 2002
  • Probe continuing in death of teacher, Staff Reports, Hartford Courant, 9 May 2002
  • Police execute search warrant in death of Stonington woman, AP via The Record-Journal, 3 Aug 2002
  • Judge allows doctors, nurses who treated Buck to be interviewed, AP via The Record-Journal, 24 Oct 2002
  • Public urination complaint forces Buck to quiet Quiambaug Fire Department by Joe Wojtas, The Day, 30 Jul 2003
  • Buck forced out as firefighter after incident during Borough blaze by Joe Wojtas, The Day, 30 Jul 2003
  • Is ‘justice’ being served? By Ann Baldelli, The Day, 8 Aug 2003
  • Buck resigns as president of Quiambaug Fire District, The Day, 27 Aug 2003
  • Russell Kirby will be in court for civil case today: Leslie Buck’s estate seeks damages connected to alleged attack, kidnapping by Ann Baldelli, The Day, 29 Aug 2003
  • Kirby tells court he did not abduct Leslie Buck by Izaskun E. Larrañeta, The Day, 3 Sep 2003
  • State Briefs: Widower takes the Fifth in court, The Record-Journal, 3 Sep 2003
  • Experts see civil suit as strategy by Buck estate by Izaskun E. Larrañeta, The Day, 5 Sep 2003
  • Court rules estate can attach property of teacher’s accused attacker by Izaskun E. Larrañeta, The Day, 11 Sep 2003
  • Hundreds walk in Stonington to remember and honor Leslie Buck by Dan Pearson, The Day, 8 May 2004
  • Pre-trial starts for man accused of abducting teacher by Izaskun E. Larrañeta, The Day, 2 Jul 2004
  • Charles Buck invokes Fifth in Kirby case by Izaskun E. Larrañeta, The Day, 3 Jul 2004
  • Judge will rule today on the admissibility of Leslie Buck’s statements in Kirby trial by Izaskun E. Larrañeta, The Day, The Day, 7 Jul 2004
  • Illness delays judge’s ruling in Buck case by Izaskun E. Larrañeta, The Day, 8 Jul 2004
  • Buck’s statements are ruled admissible by Izaskun E. Larrañeta, The Day, 9 Jul 2004
  • Handyman set to go on trial in kidnapping of Stonington teacher, AP via The Journal Inquirer, 9 Jul 2004
  • Three jurors are chosen in Buck kidnapping trial by Izaskun E. Larrañeta, The Day, 10 Jul 2004
  • Kirby identified by Leslie Buck in 911 phone call by Izaskun E. Larrañeta, The Day, 21 Jul 2004
  • Woman’s frantic call focus in kidnap trial by Alaine Griffin, Hartford Courant, 21 Jul 2004
  • 911 call begins testimony, The Journal Inquirer, 21 Jul 2004
  • Kirby admitted abducting Leslie Buck, officer testifies by Izaskun E. Larrañeta, The Day, 22 Jul 2004
  • Kidnap trial jury considers satchel by Alaine Griffin, Hartford Courant, 22 Jul 2004
  • Testimony begins in kidnap trial, AP via The Record-Journal, 22 Jul 2004
  • Kirby says tussle with Buck was self-defense by Izaskun E. Larrañeta, The Day, 23 Jul 2004
  • Husband declines to testify by Alaine Griffin, Hartford Courant, 23 Jul 2004
  • Husband takes the fifth in trial of his friend, AP via The Journal Inquirer, 23 Jul 2004
  • Kirby case jury begins deliberations by Izaskun E. Larrañeta, The Day, 27 Jul 2004
  • Closing arguments in kidnapping trial by Alain Griffin, Hartford Courant, 27 Jul 2004
  • Kirby convicted in Leslie Buck kidnapping case by Izaskun E. Larrañeta, The Day, 28 Jul 2004
  • Verdict solves part of mystery: Kidnapper guilty, but how did Leslie Buck die? By Alaine Griffin, Hartford Courant, 28 Jul 2004
  • Police hope old case will compel man to talk by Alaine Griffin, Hartford Courant, 8 Sep 2004
  • Report: Kidnapping wasn’t Kirby’s first attempt by Izaskun E. Larrañeta, The Day, 9 Sep 2004
  • Kirby receives maximum in kidnapping, assault case by Izaskun E. Larrañeta, The Day, 10 Sep 2004
  • Kirby shown no mercy, given 21 years in teacher’s abduction by Alaine Griffin, Hartford Courant, 10 Sep 2004
  • Walk to benefit memorial fund for Leslie Buck, The Day, 24 Apr 2005
  • Suit filed in death of teacher by Alaine Griffin, Hartford Courant, 20 May 2005
  • Charles Buck target of civil suit in 2002 death of his wife by Ethan Rouen, The Day, 21 May 2005
  • Insurance company asks court to help determine beneficiary in Buck death by Joe Wojtas, The Day, 2 Aug 2005
  • Motion defends timeliness of suit accusing Buck of killing his wife by Izaskun E. Larrañeta, The Day, 30 Aug 2005
  • Exceptions to hearsay rule on court docket: Can utterance be used if defense can’t query accuser? By Lynne Tuohy, Hartford Courant, 8 Jan 2006
  • Leslie Buck’s widower claims estate being wasted by Joe Wojtas, The Day, 27 Mar 2006
  • Police search Buck home, business by Joe Wojtas, The Day, 23 Apr 2006
  • Police revisit 2002 death by Alaine Griffin, Hartford Courant, 25 Apr 2006
  • Estate: Hubby killed Leslie Buck by Joe Wojtas, 29 Aug 2006
  • Attorney: Evidence shows Buck killed wife by Joe Wojtas, The Day, 29 Aug 2006
  • Husband’s attorney denies his culpability by Joe Wojtas, The Chronicle, 30 Aug 2006
  • No evidence to connect Buck to wife’s death, attorney says by Joe Woktas, The Day, 30 Aug 2006
  • A death that still haunts: Civil trial puts focus back on mysterious death of Leslie Buck by Joe Wojtas, The Day, 10 Sep 2006
  • Court ruling may help convicted felon by Joe Wojtas, The Chronicle, 21 Sep 2006
  • High-court case could aid Kirby appeal by Joe Wojtas, The Day, 21 Sep 2006
  • High court orders new trial for Kirby by Joe Wojtas, The Day, 11 Oct 2006
  • New twist in case of intrigue: new trial by Lynne Tuohy and Alaine Griffin, Hartford Courant, 11 Oct 2006
  • State undecided on Kirby appeal, The Chronicle, 13 Oct 2006
  • Kirby could be released on bond by Joe Wojtas, The Day, 24 Oct 2006
  • Bond request on hold, The Chronicle, 27 Oct 2006
  • Court deadline allowed to pass in Kirby case by Joe Wojtas, The Day, 31 Oct 2006
  • A worthy cause, born out of love, The Day, 27 Nov 2006
  • Kidnap suspect looks sickly by Joe Wojtas, The Chronicle, 1 Dec 2006
  • State may pursue Kirby case by Alaine Griffin, Hartford Courant, 1 Dec 2006
  • State will retry handyman in Stonington slaying by Joe Wojtas, The Chronicle, 12 Jan 2007
  • Kirby can be retried earlier than 2008 by Karen Florin, The Chronicle, 14 Feb 2007
  • Family Fun Walk steps off Friday night, The Mystic River Press, 3 May 2007
  • Five years later, Buck case is still a mystery by Joe Wojtas, The Chronicle, 4 May 2007
  • State’s attorney to offer Russell Kirby a plea deal by Ryan Gainor, The Mystic River Press, 12 Jul 2007
  • Kirby awaiting plea deal from state by Ryan Gainor, The Mystic River Press, 16 Aug 2007
  • Plea deadline set in abduction case: Russell Kirby has until Oct. 11 for deal by Alaine Griffin, Hartford Courant, 7 Sep 2007
  • State offers sentence for plea by Karen Florin, The Chronicle, 8 Sep 2007
  • Plea deal offered in overturned kidnapping conviction, AP via The Record-Journal, 8 Sep 2007
  • Kidnapping suspect again rejects a plea deal by Alaine Griffin, Hartford Courant, 12 Oct 2007
  • Buck asks suit to be dismissed by Joe Wojtas, The Chronicle, 15 Jan 2008
  • Suspicion over death goes public: Attorney says husband focus of homicide probe by Alaine Griffin, Hartford Courant, 15 Jan 2008
  • Buck says he didn’t kill his wife by Ryan Gainor, The Mystic River Press, 13 Mar 2008
  • Lawsuit rejected in Buck case by Alaine Griffin, Hartford Courant, 7 Jun 2008
  • Judge allows lawsuit in death to be refiled by Joe Wojtas, The Chronicle, 10 Jun 2008
  • Arrest Warrant Application for Charles F. Buck filed in State of Connecticut Superior Court – New London, 20 Jan 2009
  • Breaking News: CBS3 WFSB Hartford-New Haven, 22 Jan 2009
  • Husband charged in Buck’s death by Joe Wojtas, The Chronicle, 23 Jan 2009
  • Mystic murder case affidavit released by Alaine Griffin, Hartford Courant, 5 Feb 2009
  • Police: Buck had mistress, murder case detailed by Alaine Griffin, Hartford Courant, 6 Feb 2009
  • Affidavits released in Mystic murder case by John Christoffersen, AP via The Record-Journal, 6 Feb 2009
  • Prosecutors prepare Buck case by Joe Wojtas, The Chronicle, 24 Feb 2009
  • Warrants unsealed in Buck case by Karen Florin, The Chronicle, 23 Mar 2009
  • Buck hearing postponed by Leslie Rovetti, The Mystic River Press, 26 Mar 2009
  • Charles Buck’s alleged girlfriend testifies: Probable cause hearing by Mark Spencer, Hartford Courant, 12 May 2009
  • Bartender testifies in Buck case by Leslie Rovetti, The Mystic River Press, 14 May 2009
  • Judge to rule in early July whether Buck goes on trial by Mark Spencer, Hartford Courant, 9 Jun 2009
  • Buck to face murder trial: A death in Stonington by Mark Spencer, Hartford Courant, 3 Jul 2009
  • Appeals court refuses to lower bond for Buck by Karen Florin, The Chronicle, 11 Aug 2009
  • Judge tells Buck to return to court on Sept. 21 by Leslie Rovetti, The Mystic River Press, 13 Aug 2009
  • Handyman Kirby to be retried in Buck kidnapping case: His conviction was overturned in 2006 by Karen Florin, The Day, 10 Dec 2009
  • Buck in court hearing on murder case by Karen Florin, The Chronicle, 12 Jan 2010
  • Jury selection complete in Kirby case by Karen Florin, The Day, 20 Jan 2010
  • Jury set to hear evidence in Kirby retrial: Handyman charged with kidnapping by Karen Florin, The Day, 21 Jan 2010
  • No Buck testimony in Kirby kidnapping trial: Handyman being retried in alleged kidnapping by Karen Florin, The Day, 27 Jan 2010
  • Kirby evidence presented: Trial’s second day of testimony concentrates on physical items by Karen Florin, The Day, 28 Jan 2010
  • State rests in Kirby trial by Karen Florin, The Day, 28 Jan 2010
  • Kirby spins elaborate stories in Buck kidnapping testimony by Karen Florin, The Day, 29 Jan 2010
  • Kirby tells his side at Buck kidnap trial: Jurors to begin their deliberations Tuesday by Karen Florin, The Day, 30 Jan 2010
  • Kirby convicted in Leslie Buck kidnapping – again by Karen Florin, The Day, 2 Feb 2010
  • 2nd conviction in kidnapping: Kirby guilty, again, of Leslie Buck assault by Alaine Griffin, Hartford Courant, 3 Feb 2010
  • Man convicted again of kidnapping, assaulting Stonington teacher by Alaine Griffin, Hartford Courant, 3 Feb 2010
  • Kirby testifies he needed to borrow Buck’s car by Leslie Rovetti, The Mystic River Press, 4 Feb 2010
  • Kirby found guilty; sentencing set for March 30 by Leslie Rovetti, The Mystic River Press, 11 Feb 2010
  • Buck sells one Stonington house to help pay mounting legal bills by Joe Wojtas, The Day, 26 Feb 2010
  • Kirby faces 13 more years in prison, The Chronicle, 6 May 2010
  • Mystic murder mystery gets day in court by Alaine Griffin, Hartford Courant, 29 Aug 2010
  • Buck murder trial postponed over new report by Karen Florin, The Day, 3 Sep 2010
  • Judge lowers Buck’s bond to $1.5M in murder case by Karen Florin, The Day, 8 Sep 2010
  • Buck’s bond lowered based on doctor’s opinion by Karen Florin, The Day, 9 Sep 2010
  • Pathologist: Woman died of bad heart, Norwich Bulletin, 9 Sep 2010
  • Buck free after posting bond by Joe Wojtas, The Day, 23 Sep 2010
  • Three judges, not jury, may decide Buck case by Karen Florin, The Day, 5 Oct 2010
  • Buck to be tried by three-judge panel by Karen Florin, The Day, 19 Oct 2010
  • Judges hear from first responders to Buck home as murder trial begins by Karen Florin, The Day, 3 Nov 2010
  • Staircase in focus at Buck murder trial by Karen Florin, The Day, 3 Nov 2010
  • Heart condition at issue in Buck murder trial by Karen Florin, The Day, 4 Nov 2010
  • Witnesses say Buck looked angry on day of his wife’s death by Karen Florin, The Day, 4 Nov 2010
  • Leslie Buck felt ‘fine’ shortly before she died by Karen Florin, The Day, 5 Nov 2010
  • Buck’s confidants testify for the state by Karen Florin, The Day, 6 Nov 2010
  • Leslie Buck’s loved ones bear witness at trial by Joe Wojtas, The Day, 7 Nov 2010
  • Former bar employees setting state for Perez to testify in Buck trial by Karen Florin, The Day, 9 Nov 2010
  • ‘Other woman’ set to testify at Buck trial by Karen Florin, The Day, 10 Nov 2010
  • Woman says Buck was ‘sweet and funny’ by Karen Florin, The Day, 10 Nov 2010
  • Leslie Buck’s legacy finds a new generation of supporters by Joe Wojtas, The Day, 11 Nov 2010
  • Charles Buck was ‘funny, sweet’, says ex-bartender by Karen Florin, The Day, 11 Nov 2010
  • Buck medical examiner says cardiac consultant may not have been aware of head injury by Karen Florin, The Day, 12 Nov 2010
  • Veteran medical examiner stands by opinion in Buck murder case by Karen Florin, The Day, 13 Nov 2010
  • Medical examiner says Buck death scene altered before 911 call by Karen Florin, The Day, 16 Nov 2010
  • Expert: Leslie Buck was strangled by Karen Florin, The Day, The Day, 17 Nov 2010
  • Murder defendant’s friend undergoes cross examination by Karen Florin, The Day, 17 Nov 2010
  • Buck: I did not kill my wife by Karen Florin, The Day, 19 Nov 2010
  • Witnesses detail ‘sugar daddy’ shopping sprees in Buck murder trial by Karen Florin, The Day, 19 Nov 2010
  • Bucks were millionaires with different spending styles by Karen Florin, The Day, 19 Nov 2010
  • Man tells girlfriend he didn’t kill his wife, Norwich Bulletin, 19 Nov 2010
  • In the Buck family, Leslie was a saver, and Charlie Spent by Karen Florin, The Day, 20 Nov 2010
  • Blood spatter evidence is debated at Buck murder trial by Karen Florin, The Day, 24 Nov 2010
  • New York medical examiner says Leslie Buck was strangled by Karen Florin, The Day, 30 Nov 2010
  • Doctor: Shirt used to strangle by Karen Florin, The Day, 1 Dec 2010
  • Police interviews with Buck questioned by Joe Wojtas, The Day, 2 Dec 2010
  • Buck defense attorney raises questions about police investigation by Joe Wojtas, The Day, 2 Dec 2010
  • State rests case in Buck murder trial by Karen Florin, The Day, 9 Dec 2010
  • Another medical examiner testifies; another theory given by Karen Florin, The Day, 9 Dec 2010
  • Bad heart killed Buck, expert says by Joe Wojtas, The Day, 10 Dec 2010
  • Charles Buck’s fate is in judges’ hands by Karen Florin, The Day, 15 Dec 2010
  • Younger woman was key in slaying: Closing arguments in Charles Buck trial, prosecution by Alaine Griffin, Hartford Courant, 15 Dec 2010
  • Judges find Charles Buck not guilty of killing his wife by Alaine Griffin, Hartford Courant, 15 Dec 2010
  • Acquittal ends 8-year Buck drama by Karen Florin, The Chronicle, 16 Dec 2010
  • Buck found not guilty, acquitted of charges that he killed his wife by Alaine Griffin, Hartford Courant, 16 Dec 2010
  • Buck trying to put his life back together by A.J. Algier, The Mystic River Press, 23 Dec 2010
  • More legal hurdles ahead for Charles Buck by Alaine Griffin, Hartford Courant, 14 Jan 2011
  • Buck estate reaches settlement by Joe Wojtas, The Day, 9 Dec 2011
  • Scene of Stonington’s Buck drama reduced to rubble by Joe Wojtas, The Day, 14 Jan 2015
  • Buck sought items of ‘sentimental value’ from former Mystic home prior to demolition by Joe Wojtas, The Day, 16 Jan 2015
  • Charles Buck, acquitted in murder of his wife in 2002, has died by Joe Wojtas, The Day, 28 Oct 2016
  • Charlie Buck, charged in wife’s murder, dies by Brooke Constance, The Mystic River Press, 3 Nov 2016
  • Auction house liquidating Charlie Buck’s estate online by Brooke Cosntance, The Mystic River Press, 20 Apr 2017
  • Handyman connected to infamous Stonington case released from prison by Karen Florin, The Day, 2 Jul 2020
  • State v. Kirby