The Kidnapping of Leslie Buck (Connecticut)

In the spring of 2002, several urgent 9-1-1 calls came into the Stonington, Connecticut police department from the same caller just two days apart. First, there was a report of a violent kidnapping, and then, the untimely death of the very same victim. 

When investigators arrived at the scene of Leslie Buck’s suspicious death fresh off the arrest of the person who kidnapped her, the circumstances didn’t quite add up. In the days ahead, questions about what happened to Leslie would grow more complex and far more unsettling. What began as a shocking crime would soon spiral into a mystery with far more questions than answers

Kidnapping and Escape

When Charles Buck walked into his home at 77 Masons Island Road in Mystic, Connecticut on the night of May 2, 2002, he expected to find his wife 57-year old Leslie Buck home already. According to court records, Leslie was at an Alpha Delta Kappa meeting earlier in the night, which was an honorary sorority for teachers. Leslie was a long-time second grade teacher at Deans Mill School in Stonington.

The meeting was supposed to end at 8:15 and Charles, who I’m going to call Charlie from here on out, he knew that Leslie planned to stop into her mother’s house on the way home to drop off a piece of cake she’d saved from the meeting. But it was almost 10:30 p.m. and Leslie still wasn’t back.

The first call Charlie made that night was to his mother-in-law to see if Leslie was still at her house. Not finding her there, he called a friend of Leslie’s who also attended the meeting that night, but no Leslie. At 10:30 p.m. Charlie called local police for the first time to see if there had been any accidents. The dispatcher told him it had been a quiet night since the start of her shift at 6 p.m. 

A little while later, Charlie called dispatch again. He told this new dispatcher that he’d called around and spoke to other people who went to the meeting that night, but he still couldn’t find his wife. He told the dispatcher he was getting kind of worried, and when asked if he wanted to file a missing persons report, Charlie said yes.

Stonington Police Officer Timothy Thornton responded to the Buck’s home to take the report and left shortly after. At 11:07 p.m. Charlie dialed 9-1-1 once more. He told the dispatcher they’d better send Officer Thornton back over. Leslie was home, but she was not okay. She’d just been kidnapped.

As Charlie spoke to the dispatcher, you can hear a female voice in the background, clearly distressed. She says at one point, “Oh my God, I told you I never liked him.”

And then Leslie Buck took the phone and described for herself what she’d just survived. The harrowing ordeal began around 8:30 p.m. when Leslie returned home from the meeting.

She pulled her Buick into the garage and when she stepped out of the car, she heard someone say her name. Leslie barely had a moment for the voice to register when she was struck in the neck. She turned to face her attacker and immediately placed his face: It was the Buck’s handyman and former neighbor, 64-year old Russell Kirby.

Leslie struggled with Russell as he punched her in the stomach and pushed her on the floor. He managed to overpower her and swiftly bound her hands and legs. He then got Leslie into her own vehicle and drove off.

Leslie said that Russell brought her to his house and forced her to lay on the couch. After some time, he got her back into the car and proceeded to drive around the backroads of Ledyard, Groton, and Stonington until the car started acting up. 

As Leslie described it, Russell pulled over to check what the issue was. Russell had loosened Leslie’s restraints by that point, so when he was outside of the car she seized her opportunity to escape. Leslie slid into the driver’s seat, started up the Buick with a spare key from her purse, and drove off.

The dispatcher asked Leslie if she needed an ambulance and it’s difficult to discern, but Leslie then responded, “I don’t think so, but I got bad chest pains.” 

The dispatcher asked for Russell’s address, which Charlie and Leslie both said they didn’t know. And then Leslie said her assailant told her why he did this: He wanted money. $10,000.

An officer soon arrived at the Buck residence as the dispatcher collected more information about Russell Kirby.

Leslie was taken to the hospital for treatment that same night. According to court records, her injuries included an abrasion to the back of her neck from the stun gun, contusions and swelling to her wrists and hands, and abrasions to her legs. She was not kept for extended observation (as might be necessary or expected in instances of head injuries) and returned home with Charlie around 4 a.m.

Almost simultaneously, police were knocking on the door of the person Leslie had identified as her kidnapper. An officer asked Russell Kirby if he knew why police were there and Russell responded in the affirmative. According to the officer, Russell admitted to the kidnapping and said he did it for the money, not to hurt Leslie.

Russell was arrested around 4:30 a.m. that Friday morning, May 3rd and was charged with kidnapping, robbery, burglary, attempted larceny and second-degree assault.

When investigators searched Leslie’s car that Russell had used in the kidnapping, they found a duffel bag filled with a bunch of questionable items: a hickory log, three pieces of rope, electrical tape, gloves, a Colt .45 handgun, an ammunition magazine with seven live rounds, bottles with a liquid in them later determined to be a martini (complete with olives), and two stun guns, although only one of them was operable. At Russell’s house, police found another 120,000-volt stun gun, a cleaning box for a Colt .45 and other objects.

The investigation into the alleged kidnapping and assault was only just beginning, but according to reporting by Penelope Overton and Sudhun Thanawala for the Hartford Courant, Leslie reported to work that morning, only hours after she left the hospital. She told her fellow teachers and administrators that she was tired and sore but she wanted to be in the classroom, where she felt most comfortable.

When she left work later that afternoon, a colleague wished Leslie a good weekend. “Things could only go up,” he said to her. But that’s not what happened at all.

Leslie Buck’s story continues on Dark Downeast. Press play to hear the full episode wherever you listen to podcasts.

Episode Source Material

  • Kidnap, escape and death by Penelope Overton and Shana Sureck, Hartford Courant, 7 May 2002
  • Teacher found dead after surviving attack, AP via New Haven Register, 7 May 2002
  • Probe continues in teacher’s death by Penelope Overton and Sudhin Thanawala, Hartford Courant, 8 May 
  • Police await autopsy in death of teacher who was abducted, AP via New Haven Register, 8 May 2002
  • Probe continuing in death of teacher, Staff Reports, Hartford Courant, 9 May 2002
  • Police execute search warrant in death of Stonington woman, AP via The Record-Journal, 3 Aug 2002
  • Judge allows doctors, nurses who treated Buck to be interviewed, AP via The Record-Journal, 24 Oct 2002
  • Public urination complaint forces Buck to quiet Quiambaug Fire Department by Joe Wojtas, The Day, 30 Jul 2003
  • Buck forced out as firefighter after incident during Borough blaze by Joe Wojtas, The Day, 30 Jul 2003
  • Is ‘justice’ being served? By Ann Baldelli, The Day, 8 Aug 2003
  • Buck resigns as president of Quiambaug Fire District, The Day, 27 Aug 2003
  • Russell Kirby will be in court for civil case today: Leslie Buck’s estate seeks damages connected to alleged attack, kidnapping by Ann Baldelli, The Day, 29 Aug 2003
  • Kirby tells court he did not abduct Leslie Buck by Izaskun E. Larrañeta, The Day, 3 Sep 2003
  • State Briefs: Widower takes the Fifth in court, The Record-Journal, 3 Sep 2003
  • Experts see civil suit as strategy by Buck estate by Izaskun E. Larrañeta, The Day, 5 Sep 2003
  • Court rules estate can attach property of teacher’s accused attacker by Izaskun E. Larrañeta, The Day, 11 Sep 2003
  • Hundreds walk in Stonington to remember and honor Leslie Buck by Dan Pearson, The Day, 8 May 2004
  • Pre-trial starts for man accused of abducting teacher by Izaskun E. Larrañeta, The Day, 2 Jul 2004
  • Charles Buck invokes Fifth in Kirby case by Izaskun E. Larrañeta, The Day, 3 Jul 2004
  • Judge will rule today on the admissibility of Leslie Buck’s statements in Kirby trial by Izaskun E. Larrañeta, The Day, The Day, 7 Jul 2004
  • Illness delays judge’s ruling in Buck case by Izaskun E. Larrañeta, The Day, 8 Jul 2004
  • Buck’s statements are ruled admissible by Izaskun E. Larrañeta, The Day, 9 Jul 2004
  • Handyman set to go on trial in kidnapping of Stonington teacher, AP via The Journal Inquirer, 9 Jul 2004
  • Three jurors are chosen in Buck kidnapping trial by Izaskun E. Larrañeta, The Day, 10 Jul 2004
  • Kirby identified by Leslie Buck in 911 phone call by Izaskun E. Larrañeta, The Day, 21 Jul 2004
  • Woman’s frantic call focus in kidnap trial by Alaine Griffin, Hartford Courant, 21 Jul 2004
  • 911 call begins testimony, The Journal Inquirer, 21 Jul 2004
  • Kirby admitted abducting Leslie Buck, officer testifies by Izaskun E. Larrañeta, The Day, 22 Jul 2004
  • Kidnap trial jury considers satchel by Alaine Griffin, Hartford Courant, 22 Jul 2004
  • Testimony begins in kidnap trial, AP via The Record-Journal, 22 Jul 2004
  • Kirby says tussle with Buck was self-defense by Izaskun E. Larrañeta, The Day, 23 Jul 2004
  • Husband declines to testify by Alaine Griffin, Hartford Courant, 23 Jul 2004
  • Husband takes the fifth in trial of his friend, AP via The Journal Inquirer, 23 Jul 2004
  • Kirby case jury begins deliberations by Izaskun E. Larrañeta, The Day, 27 Jul 2004
  • Closing arguments in kidnapping trial by Alain Griffin, Hartford Courant, 27 Jul 2004
  • Kirby convicted in Leslie Buck kidnapping case by Izaskun E. Larrañeta, The Day, 28 Jul 2004
  • Verdict solves part of mystery: Kidnapper guilty, but how did Leslie Buck die? By Alaine Griffin, Hartford Courant, 28 Jul 2004
  • Police hope old case will compel man to talk by Alaine Griffin, Hartford Courant, 8 Sep 2004
  • Report: Kidnapping wasn’t Kirby’s first attempt by Izaskun E. Larrañeta, The Day, 9 Sep 2004
  • Kirby receives maximum in kidnapping, assault case by Izaskun E. Larrañeta, The Day, 10 Sep 2004
  • Kirby shown no mercy, given 21 years in teacher’s abduction by Alaine Griffin, Hartford Courant, 10 Sep 2004
  • Walk to benefit memorial fund for Leslie Buck, The Day, 24 Apr 2005
  • Suit filed in death of teacher by Alaine Griffin, Hartford Courant, 20 May 2005
  • Charles Buck target of civil suit in 2002 death of his wife by Ethan Rouen, The Day, 21 May 2005
  • Insurance company asks court to help determine beneficiary in Buck death by Joe Wojtas, The Day, 2 Aug 2005
  • Motion defends timeliness of suit accusing Buck of killing his wife by Izaskun E. Larrañeta, The Day, 30 Aug 2005
  • Exceptions to hearsay rule on court docket: Can utterance be used if defense can’t query accuser? By Lynne Tuohy, Hartford Courant, 8 Jan 2006
  • Leslie Buck’s widower claims estate being wasted by Joe Wojtas, The Day, 27 Mar 2006
  • Police search Buck home, business by Joe Wojtas, The Day, 23 Apr 2006
  • Police revisit 2002 death by Alaine Griffin, Hartford Courant, 25 Apr 2006
  • Estate: Hubby killed Leslie Buck by Joe Wojtas, 29 Aug 2006
  • Attorney: Evidence shows Buck killed wife by Joe Wojtas, The Day, 29 Aug 2006
  • Husband’s attorney denies his culpability by Joe Wojtas, The Chronicle, 30 Aug 2006
  • No evidence to connect Buck to wife’s death, attorney says by Joe Woktas, The Day, 30 Aug 2006
  • A death that still haunts: Civil trial puts focus back on mysterious death of Leslie Buck by Joe Wojtas, The Day, 10 Sep 2006
  • Court ruling may help convicted felon by Joe Wojtas, The Chronicle, 21 Sep 2006
  • High-court case could aid Kirby appeal by Joe Wojtas, The Day, 21 Sep 2006
  • High court orders new trial for Kirby by Joe Wojtas, The Day, 11 Oct 2006
  • New twist in case of intrigue: new trial by Lynne Tuohy and Alaine Griffin, Hartford Courant, 11 Oct 2006
  • State undecided on Kirby appeal, The Chronicle, 13 Oct 2006
  • Kirby could be released on bond by Joe Wojtas, The Day, 24 Oct 2006
  • Bond request on hold, The Chronicle, 27 Oct 2006
  • Court deadline allowed to pass in Kirby case by Joe Wojtas, The Day, 31 Oct 2006
  • A worthy cause, born out of love, The Day, 27 Nov 2006
  • Kidnap suspect looks sickly by Joe Wojtas, The Chronicle, 1 Dec 2006
  • State may pursue Kirby case by Alaine Griffin, Hartford Courant, 1 Dec 2006
  • State will retry handyman in Stonington slaying by Joe Wojtas, The Chronicle, 12 Jan 2007
  • Kirby can be retried earlier than 2008 by Karen Florin, The Chronicle, 14 Feb 2007
  • Family Fun Walk steps off Friday night, The Mystic River Press, 3 May 2007
  • Five years later, Buck case is still a mystery by Joe Wojtas, The Chronicle, 4 May 2007
  • State’s attorney to offer Russell Kirby a plea deal by Ryan Gainor, The Mystic River Press, 12 Jul 2007
  • Kirby awaiting plea deal from state by Ryan Gainor, The Mystic River Press, 16 Aug 2007
  • Plea deadline set in abduction case: Russell Kirby has until Oct. 11 for deal by Alaine Griffin, Hartford Courant, 7 Sep 2007
  • State offers sentence for plea by Karen Florin, The Chronicle, 8 Sep 2007
  • Plea deal offered in overturned kidnapping conviction, AP via The Record-Journal, 8 Sep 2007
  • Kidnapping suspect again rejects a plea deal by Alaine Griffin, Hartford Courant, 12 Oct 2007
  • Buck asks suit to be dismissed by Joe Wojtas, The Chronicle, 15 Jan 2008
  • Suspicion over death goes public: Attorney says husband focus of homicide probe by Alaine Griffin, Hartford Courant, 15 Jan 2008
  • Buck says he didn’t kill his wife by Ryan Gainor, The Mystic River Press, 13 Mar 2008
  • Lawsuit rejected in Buck case by Alaine Griffin, Hartford Courant, 7 Jun 2008
  • Judge allows lawsuit in death to be refiled by Joe Wojtas, The Chronicle, 10 Jun 2008
  • Arrest Warrant Application for Charles F. Buck filed in State of Connecticut Superior Court – New London, 20 Jan 2009
  • Breaking News: CBS3 WFSB Hartford-New Haven, 22 Jan 2009
  • Husband charged in Buck’s death by Joe Wojtas, The Chronicle, 23 Jan 2009
  • Mystic murder case affidavit released by Alaine Griffin, Hartford Courant, 5 Feb 2009
  • Police: Buck had mistress, murder case detailed by Alaine Griffin, Hartford Courant, 6 Feb 2009
  • Affidavits released in Mystic murder case by John Christoffersen, AP via The Record-Journal, 6 Feb 2009
  • Prosecutors prepare Buck case by Joe Wojtas, The Chronicle, 24 Feb 2009
  • Warrants unsealed in Buck case by Karen Florin, The Chronicle, 23 Mar 2009
  • Buck hearing postponed by Leslie Rovetti, The Mystic River Press, 26 Mar 2009
  • Charles Buck’s alleged girlfriend testifies: Probable cause hearing by Mark Spencer, Hartford Courant, 12 May 2009
  • Bartender testifies in Buck case by Leslie Rovetti, The Mystic River Press, 14 May 2009
  • Judge to rule in early July whether Buck goes on trial by Mark Spencer, Hartford Courant, 9 Jun 2009
  • Buck to face murder trial: A death in Stonington by Mark Spencer, Hartford Courant, 3 Jul 2009
  • Appeals court refuses to lower bond for Buck by Karen Florin, The Chronicle, 11 Aug 2009
  • Judge tells Buck to return to court on Sept. 21 by Leslie Rovetti, The Mystic River Press, 13 Aug 2009
  • Handyman Kirby to be retried in Buck kidnapping case: His conviction was overturned in 2006 by Karen Florin, The Day, 10 Dec 2009
  • Buck in court hearing on murder case by Karen Florin, The Chronicle, 12 Jan 2010
  • Jury selection complete in Kirby case by Karen Florin, The Day, 20 Jan 2010
  • Jury set to hear evidence in Kirby retrial: Handyman charged with kidnapping by Karen Florin, The Day, 21 Jan 2010
  • No Buck testimony in Kirby kidnapping trial: Handyman being retried in alleged kidnapping by Karen Florin, The Day, 27 Jan 2010
  • Kirby evidence presented: Trial’s second day of testimony concentrates on physical items by Karen Florin, The Day, 28 Jan 2010
  • State rests in Kirby trial by Karen Florin, The Day, 28 Jan 2010
  • Kirby spins elaborate stories in Buck kidnapping testimony by Karen Florin, The Day, 29 Jan 2010
  • Kirby tells his side at Buck kidnap trial: Jurors to begin their deliberations Tuesday by Karen Florin, The Day, 30 Jan 2010
  • Kirby convicted in Leslie Buck kidnapping – again by Karen Florin, The Day, 2 Feb 2010
  • 2nd conviction in kidnapping: Kirby guilty, again, of Leslie Buck assault by Alaine Griffin, Hartford Courant, 3 Feb 2010
  • Man convicted again of kidnapping, assaulting Stonington teacher by Alaine Griffin, Hartford Courant, 3 Feb 2010
  • Kirby testifies he needed to borrow Buck’s car by Leslie Rovetti, The Mystic River Press, 4 Feb 2010
  • Kirby found guilty; sentencing set for March 30 by Leslie Rovetti, The Mystic River Press, 11 Feb 2010
  • Buck sells one Stonington house to help pay mounting legal bills by Joe Wojtas, The Day, 26 Feb 2010
  • Kirby faces 13 more years in prison, The Chronicle, 6 May 2010
  • Mystic murder mystery gets day in court by Alaine Griffin, Hartford Courant, 29 Aug 2010
  • Buck murder trial postponed over new report by Karen Florin, The Day, 3 Sep 2010
  • Judge lowers Buck’s bond to $1.5M in murder case by Karen Florin, The Day, 8 Sep 2010
  • Buck’s bond lowered based on doctor’s opinion by Karen Florin, The Day, 9 Sep 2010
  • Pathologist: Woman died of bad heart, Norwich Bulletin, 9 Sep 2010
  • Buck free after posting bond by Joe Wojtas, The Day, 23 Sep 2010
  • Three judges, not jury, may decide Buck case by Karen Florin, The Day, 5 Oct 2010
  • Buck to be tried by three-judge panel by Karen Florin, The Day, 19 Oct 2010
  • Judges hear from first responders to Buck home as murder trial begins by Karen Florin, The Day, 3 Nov 2010
  • Staircase in focus at Buck murder trial by Karen Florin, The Day, 3 Nov 2010
  • Heart condition at issue in Buck murder trial by Karen Florin, The Day, 4 Nov 2010
  • Witnesses say Buck looked angry on day of his wife’s death by Karen Florin, The Day, 4 Nov 2010
  • Leslie Buck felt ‘fine’ shortly before she died by Karen Florin, The Day, 5 Nov 2010
  • Buck’s confidants testify for the state by Karen Florin, The Day, 6 Nov 2010
  • Leslie Buck’s loved ones bear witness at trial by Joe Wojtas, The Day, 7 Nov 2010
  • Former bar employees setting state for Perez to testify in Buck trial by Karen Florin, The Day, 9 Nov 2010
  • ‘Other woman’ set to testify at Buck trial by Karen Florin, The Day, 10 Nov 2010
  • Woman says Buck was ‘sweet and funny’ by Karen Florin, The Day, 10 Nov 2010
  • Leslie Buck’s legacy finds a new generation of supporters by Joe Wojtas, The Day, 11 Nov 2010
  • Charles Buck was ‘funny, sweet’, says ex-bartender by Karen Florin, The Day, 11 Nov 2010
  • Buck medical examiner says cardiac consultant may not have been aware of head injury by Karen Florin, The Day, 12 Nov 2010
  • Veteran medical examiner stands by opinion in Buck murder case by Karen Florin, The Day, 13 Nov 2010
  • Medical examiner says Buck death scene altered before 911 call by Karen Florin, The Day, 16 Nov 2010
  • Expert: Leslie Buck was strangled by Karen Florin, The Day, The Day, 17 Nov 2010
  • Murder defendant’s friend undergoes cross examination by Karen Florin, The Day, 17 Nov 2010
  • Buck: I did not kill my wife by Karen Florin, The Day, 19 Nov 2010
  • Witnesses detail ‘sugar daddy’ shopping sprees in Buck murder trial by Karen Florin, The Day, 19 Nov 2010
  • Bucks were millionaires with different spending styles by Karen Florin, The Day, 19 Nov 2010
  • Man tells girlfriend he didn’t kill his wife, Norwich Bulletin, 19 Nov 2010
  • In the Buck family, Leslie was a saver, and Charlie Spent by Karen Florin, The Day, 20 Nov 2010
  • Blood spatter evidence is debated at Buck murder trial by Karen Florin, The Day, 24 Nov 2010
  • New York medical examiner says Leslie Buck was strangled by Karen Florin, The Day, 30 Nov 2010
  • Doctor: Shirt used to strangle by Karen Florin, The Day, 1 Dec 2010
  • Police interviews with Buck questioned by Joe Wojtas, The Day, 2 Dec 2010
  • Buck defense attorney raises questions about police investigation by Joe Wojtas, The Day, 2 Dec 2010
  • State rests case in Buck murder trial by Karen Florin, The Day, 9 Dec 2010
  • Another medical examiner testifies; another theory given by Karen Florin, The Day, 9 Dec 2010
  • Bad heart killed Buck, expert says by Joe Wojtas, The Day, 10 Dec 2010
  • Charles Buck’s fate is in judges’ hands by Karen Florin, The Day, 15 Dec 2010
  • Younger woman was key in slaying: Closing arguments in Charles Buck trial, prosecution by Alaine Griffin, Hartford Courant, 15 Dec 2010
  • Judges find Charles Buck not guilty of killing his wife by Alaine Griffin, Hartford Courant, 15 Dec 2010
  • Acquittal ends 8-year Buck drama by Karen Florin, The Chronicle, 16 Dec 2010
  • Buck found not guilty, acquitted of charges that he killed his wife by Alaine Griffin, Hartford Courant, 16 Dec 2010
  • Buck trying to put his life back together by A.J. Algier, The Mystic River Press, 23 Dec 2010
  • More legal hurdles ahead for Charles Buck by Alaine Griffin, Hartford Courant, 14 Jan 2011
  • Buck estate reaches settlement by Joe Wojtas, The Day, 9 Dec 2011
  • Scene of Stonington’s Buck drama reduced to rubble by Joe Wojtas, The Day, 14 Jan 2015
  • Buck sought items of ‘sentimental value’ from former Mystic home prior to demolition by Joe Wojtas, The Day, 16 Jan 2015
  • Charles Buck, acquitted in murder of his wife in 2002, has died by Joe Wojtas, The Day, 28 Oct 2016
  • Charlie Buck, charged in wife’s murder, dies by Brooke Constance, The Mystic River Press, 3 Nov 2016
  • Auction house liquidating Charlie Buck’s estate online by Brooke Cosntance, The Mystic River Press, 20 Apr 2017
  • Handyman connected to infamous Stonington case released from prison by Karen Florin, The Day, 2 Jul 2020
  • State v. Kirby